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I keep finding myself in the same conversation loop.
Different company. Different logo. Same frustration.
Marketing leaders telling me lead gen is down. Founders wondering why nothing is converting. Sales teams annoyed because “the leads aren’t real.” Marketing quietly defending dashboards full of activity while pipeline reviews feel… thin.
Then someone inevitably says, “We’re running a lot of campaigns.”
And that’s usually the moment everything makes sense.
Because the problem isn’t effort. It’s not intelligence. It’s not budget.
It’s that most teams are still trying to win a precision game with a volume strategy.
Here’s what’s actually changed
We are no longer in a volume era. We’re in a precision era.
Everyone has AI. Everyone has automation. Everyone can build lists, enrich contacts, append data, and “personalize” messages at scale. Which means buyers’ inboxes are now full of emails that look impressive…and feel completely hollow.
You know the ones:
“Saw you went to XYZ University — go Tigers.”
“Noticed you’ve been in your role for 18 months, congrats!”
“Loved your recent LinkedIn post about leadership.”
It’s technically personalized. It’s also painfully obvious it was automated.
So buyers tune out. Not because you’re bad at marketing, but because they’re being hit from every angle with the same over-AI’d air cover that mistakes trivia for relevance.
This is why broad, spray-and-pray campaigns feel so ineffective right now. They’re not cutting through, they’re blending in.
Which brings me to this point I keep making (and will keep making):
ABM isn’t a nice-to-have anymore. It’s the only sales automation strategy that actually makes sense.
Why “air cover” and spray-and-pray are failing hard
Most teams don’t realize how noisy they’ve become. I’ve told many friends, colleagues, and clients this is a touchpoint game. But that comes at a price…volume.
Right now, I’m seeing things like:
Massive outbound sequences going to thousands of contacts with nothing more than a job title swap
Paid LinkedIn campaigns targeting “everyone in the industry” with watered-down messaging
AI-written emails that sound clever but say absolutely nothing specific
“Personalization” that focuses on who the buyer is instead of why they should care
This is what happens when automation leads and strategy follows.
It creates the illusion of momentum…activity everywhere, relevance nowhere.
And sales feels it immediately.
Where teams think they’re doing ABM (but really aren’t)
When someone tells me “ABM didn’t work for us,” it’s almost always because one or more of these things happened:
They targeted accounts but didn’t change the message
They ran ads without a documented ABM strategy behind them
They obsessed over wins and completely ignored why deals were lost
Sales and marketing were “aligned,” but telling different stories
Automation was built before anyone agreed on what problem they solve best
[And biggest one for me] They didn’t test their cadence, subject lines, and/or their messages. You can’t ride with the same campaign from window to window or even leaving the campaign unchanged if it’s not working.
That’s not ABM. That’s targeted chaos.
Real ABM forces discipline. And discipline is uncomfortable for teams addicted to volume.
The shift that actually changes outcomes
The shift is simple, but not easy:
Stop trying to talk to everyone.
Start going smaller and deeper with the accounts that actually matter.
ABM works because it trades:
Volume for focus
Activity for intention
Vanity metrics for pipeline
It also forces marketing to anchor itself directly to revenue, which is how you earn a seat at the table instead of defending one.
What this looks like in practice (the full 10-step process)
This is the exact framework I use. Nothing fancy. Nothing theoretical.
Start with 100 target accounts. Not thousands. One hundred. This usually gives you ~300 real contacts, which is perfect for paid LinkedIn and outbound.
Identify three roles per account — typically CEO, Operations, and Finance. If you can’t sell to all three, deals stall or die quietly.
Document the three reasons you win deals. Look for patterns, not anecdotes.
Document the three reasons you lose deals. These matter more than wins, and most teams avoid this step.
Turn losses into content. Blogs, ads, sales emails, enablement…address objections before sales has to.
Flip wins into pain points. You don’t sell services; you solve known problems.
Use ChatGPT to translate those pain points by persona and function. Same value, different language. This is a massive unlock when done right.
Build a real ABM strategy document. This is your North Star. If it’s not written down, it doesn’t exist.
Design automation intentionally — cold outreach, trigger-based nurture, long-term nurture, and sales support all with a purpose.
Measure pipeline, talk to sales, and adjust. Leads don’t matter if deals aren’t moving.
That’s it. ABM isn’t complicated. It’s just intentional.
Your homework for this week.
Block one uninterrupted hour on your calendar.
Then do this, in order:
Write down your top 100 target accounts
List:
Three reasons you consistently win
Three reasons you consistently lose
Map each reason to:
CEO
Operations
Finance
If you want to go one step further, take one loss reason and rewrite it as:
A blog headline
A LinkedIn ad hook
A sales email opener
If you can do just this, you’re no longer guessing. You’re building with intention.
And intention is how marketing stops defending activity and starts driving pipeline.
See you next Sunday!
— Jeff
P.S. If this hit close to home and you’re tired of adding more tools, more campaigns, and more chaos just to get the same results, that’s literally what I help with. I work with a small number of solo marketers and B2B teams each year to build focused strategy, clean systems, and leverage that actually shows up in pipeline.
If you want to talk it through, grab time here: https://calendly.com/jeff-forestcitydigital/marketing-coaching-discovery-call